Moments in Time

Being single sometimes can be viewed as negative in the society i live in...i was mostly viewed as someone fussy or with flaws that one men wanted to marry me....it that really true?  Now that i am in my 50s and wiser and looking at friends around me...married once are getting divorced, living in a broken relationship, or are widowed. Really feels like i made the right decision of staying single. An interesting news i heard today, my friend in her 30s married in 2016 after going out with her love of her life for like 4 year..is getting a divorce.   She said she could not stand her mother in law...you know what people say....marrying someone isn't just marrying the love of your life ..its also his family.. This is a combination that is hard to come by. There is so much stress in getting the combination right, working on it and you are not sure if it will all work out. Sometimes i wonder what is the statistic of successful marriages..i mean real success not only those stay mar

As i watched today some reruns of Sex and the City episodes reminded me of my time in my 30s. Just like Carrie Bradshow i was also having men issues.I would see the same flaws as Carrie saw and would end my relationships. Was i being too judgemental? afraid or just influenced by the Carrie Bradshow? Now looking back of those series makes me reflect exactly how i felt then 18 years ago. I knew what i wanted and did not settle for something that was not me, i was ready for commitment but never met the right person. They were all right at first until i found something which i could not stand. But now looking back i know i have made the right decision. I may grow old alone and die alone, but one thing i know for sure is that i lived my live they way i wanted and did not suffer in silence. Hey life is full of surprise..i may just meet Mr Right sometime soon