Single or Married

Being single sometimes can be viewed as negative in the society i live in...i was mostly viewed as someone fussy or with flaws that one men wanted to marry me....it that really true? 
Now that i am in my 50s and wiser and looking at friends around me...married once are getting divorced, living in a broken relationship, or are widowed. Really feels like i made the right decision of staying single.

An interesting news i heard today, my friend in her 30s married in 2016 after going out with her love of her life for like 4 year..is getting a divorce.   She said she could not stand her mother in law...you know what people say....marrying someone isn't just marrying the love of your life ..its also his family.. This is a combination that is hard to come by. There is so much stress in getting the combination right, working on it and you are not sure if it will all work out.
Sometimes i wonder what is the statistic of successful marriages..i mean real success not only those stay married. is there s right formula.?..the million dollar question which everyone want to know.

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